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I want to share with you a powerful 4-step strategy couples counsellors use to stop conflict from spiralling — and help people reconnect, even when things feel hard. My hope is that this transformative session will reset your approach to love and connection,Â
Actually, this strategy, when used properly, could be used to de-escalate between almost any two people.
Whether your single, partnered, "in between" or "never been," this is for you.
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"The examples of real discussions were really helpful. You’re easy to listen to and engaging. I work in case management and already knew some strategies, but I could really relate to how you explained the 4 Horsemen. My partner often argues in these patterns, and I think he’d be open to your next session. Thanks for showing how much work it takes on both sides to build healthy communication."
(Name withheld)
If your relationship still sometimes feels like a cycle of arguments, shutdowns, or you're just not being heard — you’re not alone. I want to share this new tool to help get your relationships back on track.
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Do you still sometimes feel frustrated and drained with painful or unfulfilling relationships that don’t provide the deep emotional intimacy and love you desire? You're in the right place.
This is the #1 Conflict Tool Couples Counsellours use to help people to grow stronger, deeper connections.
Feel like you've tried everything and nothing works? - Don't worry, I'll cover that too.Â
Join me LIVE on Sunday, 25 May at 3pm.
 Have you ever found yourself:
- Stuck in repeating arguments that go nowhere?
- Avoiding conflict altogether, but still feeling resentful?
- Feeling like you’re not being heard — no matter how calmly you try to explain?
- Wondering how small issues escalate into huge blow-ups?
...Not being able to make yourself seen or heard in your relationships?
Worrying about being left or rejected when things get hard?
Not trusting anyone to really have your back when you need it most?
"The most valuable part was learning practical communication tools that help de-escalate conflict and create a safer space for open, honest dialogue. I feel more confident and less intimidated by conflict. I now see it as an opportunity for growth, not something to fear. I didn’t realize how much my own reactions and unspoken expectations were adding to the tension. It gave me a whole new perspective. I’d tell anyone in a relationship to do this — it’s about deepening connection and learning tools that actually work in real life."
(Name withheld)
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In this free session, I’ll teach a 4-step conversation method that helps you:
- Stay calm when things get tense
- Stop criticism and defensiveness from taking over
- Find real solutions, even if your partner doesn’t want to talk
- Live Q&A for participants
- What to do if you keep getting stuck
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to be curious enough to try something new.
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About the Training
Richard teaches the #1 conflict tool to shift patterns and rebuild connection. With this you can begin to break the cycle, and use conflict to reconnect, not push each other away.
We’ve all been there — a moment of misunderstanding turns into a fight. Or you shut down completely to avoid saying the wrong thing. Conflict feels unsafe, unpredictable… or endless.
But here's the truth: conflict doesn't have to destroy connection.
It’s often the biggest red flag that you're stuck in The Disconnection Trap — where old emotional wounds, unspoken needs, and fear of rejection silently shape how you argue, react, and retreat.
In this free LIVE Workshop, you'll learn the #1 conflict tool couples therapists use to stop reactivity, reduce emotional spirals, and create space for real connection.
I look forward to trying the strategies. The impact of past experiences and how they flow on into new relationships really stood out. You’re easy to listen to — I’d definitely recommend this to a friend.
Britt
What You’ll Learn
You’ll discover:
- AÂ proven technique to stop arguments from spiraling
- Why conflict isn’t the real problem — and how to spot what’s underneath it
- How to move from reactive patterns into emotional safety
- How this all fits into The Disconnection Trap framework — and what it takes to truly break free
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Who This Training Is For
This training is for you if:
Whether you’re single, dating, in a long-term relationship or "it's complicated" you’ll leave with clarity, confidence, and an actionable step you can use immediately.
You want real tools, not just "pop psychology".
"The most valuable part was learning practical communication tools that help de-escalate conflict and create a safer space for open, honest dialogue. I feel more confident and less intimidated by conflict. I now see it as an opportunity for growth, not something to fear. I didn’t realize how much my own reactions and unspoken expectations were adding to the tension. It gave me a whole new perspective. I’d tell anyone in a relationship to do this — it’s about deepening connection and learning tools that actually work in real life."
(Name withheld)
Why You Shouldn’t Miss This
Most people never learn how to fight fair, repair after rupture, or feel emotionally safe when things get tough.
This session gives you a powerful reframe and a practical strategy used by psychologists every day.
Don’t let the Disconnection Trap keep you in the cycle of overgiving, shutting down, or walking on eggshells.
You deserve love that feels safe, mutual, and secure — even in conflict.
Disclaimer
This Workshop is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological care. If you're in crisis or experiencing abuse, please seek support from relevant services, such as 1800RESPECT.
